Day 3 YMCA and School
Today, is the 15th of March of 2017. Beware the Ides of March everyone, and if you do not know what that means: I encourage you to look it up.
We rose from our beds at 8:15 A.M. to move our beds to make way for the dinner we will host at our place for our college/the other university students, eat breakfast, and make lunch. That meant we got another chance to sleep in. The first morning we woke up at 6:00 A.M. We showered at 9:45 to 10:15.
We split into two groups again, but this time we switched leaders and group members. My group stayed at the YMCA to do some work after we showered there while the other group left.
Since there were five of us plus Pam, Miracle and I went to spend some time with the kids first whilst Carlos, Yosi, and Joe went with Pam to clean the locker rooms.
Miracle and I spent two hours with kids ranging in age from 6 to 12 years old. The teacher explained to us that since school was closed for the day, due to the snowy and cold conditions and winding roads, the students’ parents sent them to the YMCA. When we first got there, the children were about to eat lunch. Any child who did not have a lunch that they brought from home was given a hot meal served family style. I started to ask the girls and boys different questions such as: what is your name, what is your brothers’ and sisters’ names, and what is your favorite movie? I tried to compliment them and be as positive and as enthusiastic I could be.
We then assisted when they split up into groups of two and went to several different stations. I spent most of my time in the reading station, when Miracle spent more time in the creative stations. We ended up swapping at one point to try different stations ourselves, so I went to Connect Four. I was a bit of a referee: there to make sure each one was getting a fair shake at starting the game. Then, the kids went to the table to sit by their swimsuits, and they waited for their names to be called so that they could have their turn to change in the bathroom. Miracle and I waited outside to make sure that they did not dilly-dally. The kids were called in to a line. We walked them down to the pool before being told that it was time for lunch.
We broke for lunch and pulled out our sack lunches. We conversed about our experiences. Soon it was time to change people and get back to work.
This time, Miracle and I joined Pam and Yosi to clean. Carlos and Joe went to hang out with the kids. We showed them where the kids were, i.e. where the pool was, so that they would know where to go.
We cleaned a locker room by wiping the lockers, mirrors, stalls, doors, sinks, toilets, and showers.
Then, the director of the YMCA gave us a tour of the history and changes of the place before we left. She grew up going to the Pulaski Y and then moved away for college. She still had family living here, and her parents are elderly, so she and her husband made the journey from Richmond, Virginia to Pulaski, Virginia often. Her mother called her to tell her about the head position opening up at the YMCA, and so they moved there in 2013.
We started with talking about the flooring of the hallway and the flooring of the locker rooms. Apparently, when she came back, the board wanted someone to take on the place, so they didn’t tell her about all of the problems, including the budget. She wasn’t quite sure if they were going to make budget that year, but they did.
Anyway, back to the locker rooms: the same pink and blue lockers were still there since she had been a child! So, that was another update.
Onto the gymnasium. She wondered how the kids could play basketball if the lights were so old and covered in dust and grime. So, that was one of the first changes that they made in the gym. Once that was completed, she could see why they haven’t done anything about it before. Sure, one of the problems was a lack of funds, but also it was the fact that it would highlight that the floor was in bad shape. The floor was cracked in some places and some pieces were coming up. Another issue was that the floor was just restained over and over again when the floor underneath was actually quite sound. Once a professional had looked at the problem, he was able to get most of the staining layers removed, and it didn’t cost that much to fix the floor.
One side of the gymnasium had a group of young kids playing basketball and the other side had an older group of kids playing. Basically, this time slot was in open time.
We then moved on to the next part of the YMCA that was attached to the basketball court. During the eighties , racquetball became very popular. So this next part was a new addition that they hoped would add business to their community center. Once the trend died down, they kept one racquetball room, made a second one into a free weights room, and a third room into another important space. When you go upstairs, that used to be the area where people would watch racquetball, so they had to repurpose the room. They have since repurposed it again into a room where they have spin class, yoga, and many other classes except for Zumba. Zumba is held in the gymnasium where they build a stage just for them.
Then we moved on to the pool where she explained everything they have done with it. Now I can’t remember everything, but she made it a point to tell us that she believes that every second grader should have free access to their program. She started this program where each year they added on an elementary school with their second grade class. By next year, they should have all five elementary schools involved. It makes sense that they want to teach kids at a young age how to swim because they have big lakes around here, and it would be good to give them a head start. Also, she mentioned that their swimming team at the high school is not very good, so they are planning to build up kids for the future, with a team at their age right now, so that they do have a good swim team, in highschool, at one point in the future.
Now I’m going to talk a little bit about the kids’ program. She had a bit of hard time selling the idea of making the YMCA the first place for a Head Start program in Pulaski County. They asked her why, and she said that there had been a few infant deaths, and also many of the parents could benefit from having their kids in this program that they would not have access to otherwise. We saw the nursery, where they had a set of male identical triplets, a set of twins, and two other babies. There were also two other classrooms besides the babies’ room and the room we had been in earlier.
She then brought us out to the lobby and told us about how she views this place as a community center and not a fitness center. Yes, we went into the room where we saw all of these machines to help people become fit, but it never bothers her when the new fitness place, that opened up 2 years ago, wins first place in an annual contest.
She then went on to talk about how they plan on raising $125,000 this year. At least, I believe that was the amount. She showed us a chart that they have on the wall, which tells people how far they have come along in fundraising. She told us the story of an Arizona man, who comes back to Pulaski to visit his parents. Now, she doesn’t know how they reached out to him, but he believes in the YMCA because it played such a big role in his life. He is planning on donating $25,000, and they would like to match it with their fundraisers coming up.
Now, it is time to talk about our next activity. Yesterday, we started to make these rugs for cats and small dogs. We were unable to finish them; however, we finished them today. Since the middle schoolers weren’t in school today, the teachers came in just for us, so that we could finish our project. I have never felt so satisfied to have made a craft because I know that this craft is not for me, but rather it is for someone else. This craft will improve the quality of life for animals, which I believe are just as important as people.
We ate dinner at our homebase of St. Edward’s Catholic Church. We got an opportunity to interact with the church members, essentially the members of the community, who are a generation or two older than us. We had a nice dialogue with them. The other two colleges were there.
Now, it is time to start talking about reflectioning. The question of the day was as follows: describe in 10 words or less what our day was like. We could use a full sentence or a bunch of adjectives or even both. This is mine: a light day since the weather changed our plans.
Nevertheles, I still feel as though this day had a huge impact. I learned so much about how long you have to be patient and have a vision for the future. We don’t have quite the same connection to our YMCA back in Illinois. We have so many fitness centers, and we were getting away from the concept of being a part of a community. What I have noticed, a pattern you might say, is that the guides that we have had were people that came back to Pulaski, Virginia as older adults. For some reason, maybe it was family, people are drawn back here. That, ladies and gentleman, is a beautiful thing.
-Melanie Hughes-